i appauld the maturity of my family.

Be careful what you say Breanna! I am not sure you are adult enough to talk to your father like that. Even if he does need help making better choices. You seem to need a little help with them yourself.

As far as needing financial aid goes you are a grown woman, work for it! You have had a lot of people to help you with your necessities. You should be thankful. Pat is trying to actually do right at this time for the boys and you. If you care about the boys so much go take them every weekend to help give them some one not so screwed up to take care of them.

I love you very much but you really haven't experienced any adversity yet.

This is in response to your blog.

Believe it or not I love you,

Aunt Linda

Excuse me.... for criticizing my grown man of a father... shame on me for picking on him... for not being able to take care of any of his 4 children... my older brother who he claimed up until he was 12 and then decided all of a sudden he wasnt his......
I AM NOT ADULT ENOUGH?........ I am 22. I was 14 when my stepdad passed away, and then i went to live with my father who IMMEDIATELY dumped me off on some woman who wanted to marry and used me to get close to her... and then never spoke to them again because she rejected his marriage proposal....... after that....... shipped to florida for the summer, 2 months. i come back... and my father is dating a 19 year old girl, and in a couple months... she was pregnant...... during this time... no one was ever home... i was a 15 year old girl, alone, by herself, constantly, no phone, just shelter and a freezer full of schwans food.... which had to be the 18th job my father had gotten since i moved back to kansas... so during this time by myself and made the decision that this wasnt a good enviroment and moved in with my grandpa... im trying to think who sounds more adult right now........
and the whole, im not adult enough to talk like this, but i am a grown woman and work for college blah blah blah.... and yes, i do have people i can thankfully rely on to help me if i need it. thank god... .cuz where would i be if i had to rely on my own father? who still refused to take on any respnsiblity and just moves anytime he thinks he cant handle things... runs away from his problems....
And the remark on how i seem to need help making better decisions also?............................................ you fucking kidding me? lets all be 12 for a second i guess.........
I am 22.... i can take care of myself and keep a job, but im still growing up and learning from my mistakes.... because i am 22.... its kind of excusable to make mistakes to learn from.... but when ya hit 48.... i think you would have learned what causes pregnancy... but hey... i guess you dont learn til after the 4th time i suppose....

me take the boys?... im not the one who needs to take on that responsibility... i love them, and i hope for the bset... but what the heck am i suppose to do... i cant take care of children every weekend... that why i have taken preventative measures...

HOW DARE YOU think you should get in the middle of an argument that is between ME and my FATHER..... You werent the one that he was hardly there for... i have no doubt he loves me.... but if he cant take care of his responsibilities then he needs to rethink decisions he makes...

I bet my older brother isnt adult enough to not respect his father either.
You have no idea about my life... dont you dare compare me to my father, and how hes been through so much crap blah blah blah... most of the trouble hes had in his life has been his own doing.


(I also recieved an angry and ahem*mature* voicemail from my father....)
he was quite angry, because my instigator of an aunt told him about the blog i wrote...

i could write about her maturity as well.... but i wont... im not adult enough....

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5 months, 3 weeks ago by Breanna C.